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Sometimes I am amazed that I can still find myself in places where when I have a headache I would not be referred to a tablet but treated with a head massage. I am also amazed that we do not even expect anything more, from people we care about, then to ask us if we have taken a medicine for our pains. We don't expect anyone to bring us a cup of brewed tea or soup. We don't expect anyone to sit and hear our woes. Its all matter of fact now! 'Oh honey do you have a headache?, I hope you took a pain killer'.

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